One of the biggest questions first-time backpackers ask before heading to Southeast Asia is:
“Should I book accommodation in advance, or just turn up and find somewhere when I arrive?”
I’ve been there — staring at my laptop before a backpacking trip, weighing up the freedom of winging it versus the comfort of knowing I had a bed waiting for me. After a few months backpacking through Thailand, Laos, Cambodia, and Vietnam, I’ve learned that the answer isn’t one-size-fits-all. It depends on your travel style, budget, and even the season.
Here’s the lowdown so you can decide what works best for you.
✅ The Case for Booking Accommodation in Advance
Booking ahead comes with peace of mind, especially if:
- You’re arriving late at night or super early. Nothing feels worse than wandering around with a heavy backpack at 2am.
- It’s peak season or a festival. Think Songkran in Thailand, New Year in Vietnam, or the Full Moon Party on Koh Phangan. Beds sell out fast.
- You want something specific. Boutique hostels, eco-lodges, or budget stays with great reviews often get snapped up.
- You’re new to backpacking. Booking a few nights in advance at each new stop helps ease you in before you start leaving things open-ended.
💡 Pro tip: I normally book 1–3 nights in each place a day or two in advance, then extend my stay directly if I love the place. It’s a good balance between security and flexibility.
🌍 The Freedom of Winging It
On the flip side, backpacking in Southeast Asia is all about spontaneity. Some of my best travel memories came from:
Meeting people in hostels and deciding to travel together. Staying longer in a mountain town I hadn’t planned on. Rocking up to a guesthouse and finding a cheap private room that wasn’t even online. Or in my case not being able to catch the train from Luang Prabang to Vang Vieng when we had planned to because of a bit of a shambles with the LCR App and a very unfortunate work around with a local travel agent which happened to be the start of a very strange week in Laos. Luckily because we hadn’t pre-booked any accommodation we didn’t lose out.
Winging it works best when:
- You’re travelling outside of peak season.
- You’re flexible on budget (sometimes the last beds are pricier).
- You’re happy with basic accommodation.
💡 Pro tip: In smaller towns across Laos and Cambodia, walking down the main street and popping into guesthouses often gets you the best deals.
📅 My Personal Strategy
After months on the road, here’s how I usually do it:
First night in a new country/city: Always book ahead. I booked our first few nights in Bangkok ahead of arriving but everything else we booked a few days in advance. After a border crossing or long bus ride, trust me, you’ll want somewhere to collapse.
For busy spots / peak times especially if you’re travelling South Thailand over Christmas & New Year you NEED to book at least a week or two in advance. We actually had to book a month in advance for Koh Samui and Koh Tao over Christmas and New Year and even then options were limited (and expensive).
Everywhere else: I book 1–3 nights online, then extend in person or move if I find somewhere better.
This balance has saved me stress while still keeping that backpacker freedom.
💰 Does Winging It Save You Money?
Sometimes! In places like Laos or smaller towns in Vietnam, you can often negotiate better walk-in rates. Personally I never tried the walk-in option I only ever extended stays in person. In big tourist hubs like Bangkok, Hanoi, or Siem Reap, booking online can actually be cheaper thanks to deals on apps like Agoda or Booking.com.
💡 Budget Tip: If you’re wondering how much you need to save for your backpacking trip, check out my post: How Much Does It Really Cost to Backpack Southeast Asia in 2025.
📲 Apps & Sites I Use
- Booking.com & Agoda: Best for hostels and budget stays.
- Hostelworld: Great for social hostels and meeting people.
- Google Maps Reviews: To make sure they’re real accommodations, with real locations.
So, should you book in advance or wing it?
👉 Do both. Book your first few nights in each place, a couple of days in advance where you can, then leave some room for spontaneity. Personally for Southeast Asia I wouldn’t book too far ahead unless travelling at a peak time as there are normally so many well priced options. That way, you’ll have the security of a bed when you need it — but the freedom to follow your gut, your new friends, or even a local recommendation.
Backpacking Southeast Asia is about balance: comfort and chaos, plans and surprises. And honestly? That’s half the fun.
Enjoy your Travels!
Em x
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